Complicated ...
We have a group of friends that started of as friends or acquaintances because our husbands/boyfriends are friends . So friendship does not come naturally as women always make it more complicated than it needs to be . The usual clique either chooses whether to like the new individual or not , "never saying it out loud of course " , always a gesture or body language makes the other feel uncomfortable . ( yes this does not just happen in high school ) .
Eventually over a few drinks or a stressful circumstance the clique finds that :" this person is not so bad , we have something in common ." The friendship begins the group gets along until the new girls arrives ....lol ....insane right ?
A spa session last night created a bonding session with two of the girls. We actually had a lovely evening , with no complications , just relaxation , good food and great company , I hope to have many more ...
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