Female relationships are complicated

Complicated ...

We have a group of friends that started of as friends or acquaintances because our husbands/boyfriends are friends . So friendship does not come naturally as women always make it more complicated than it needs to be . The usual clique either chooses whether to like the new individual or not  , "never saying it out loud of course " , always a gesture or body language makes the other feel uncomfortable .  ( yes  this does not just happen in high school ) . 

Eventually over a few drinks or a stressful circumstance the clique finds that :" this person is not so bad , we have something in common ." The friendship begins the group gets along until the new girls arrives ....lol ....insane right ? 

A spa session last night created a bonding session with two of the girls. We actually had a lovely evening , with no complications , just relaxation , good food and great company , I hope to have many more ... 

the beginning

In the beginning God created the Heaven and Earth , he made all the things that we don't appreciate any more in 6 days and on the 7th day he rested . Rest , a word not commonly used in my vocabulary because we always on the go . work , business , baby , life . I have decided to put my thoughts in my blog because I am tired . Tired of being misunderstood, tired of being the under dog because I choose silence over insult , tired of the negativity .  

Today I choose , I choose myself , I choose my friends , I choose the people who I want to be around , I choose the path I want to follow ( with the Guidance of the Almighty) . I choose me . 

Life is unpredictable and sometimes most us of us cannot cope with the change that we don't plan or foresee. We like pattern and structure , but life is not always that way for most people . We go through constant trials and tribulations and matter we cannot control . So much so , that we lose control . 

These are just my thoughts and opinions. 

As I go on , I hope to find out what it all means and where I am suppose to be ....